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Speak Schmeak is the blog of public speaking coach Lisa Braithwaite


Cynthia Tedore, a long-time Speak Schmeak reader (and an expert on arachnids!) sent me this question: "How does one project one's voice, yet still sound natural when public speaking (and not like you're yelling)?"

Most people who fear public speaking actually fear being judged. Whatever the stated fear is, whether it's "I don't want to lose my place," or "I don't want to bore the audience," or "I'm afraid I can't answer a question," these all come down to a fear of being judged. Judged inadequate. Judged incompetent. Judged insufficient. Rejected.

You may not be a professional speaker, but there's no reason not to act like one.

If you want to get speaking engagements to promote your business, for example, you are more likely to be invited if you have a professional presence. Just because you're not a pro, it doesn't mean potential organizers are going to let you get away with bad practices, and you will not be invited back -- if you are even invited in the first place.

I recently wrote about some oddly configured conference rooms I've presented in, and here's the latest interesting venue, from last night:

I have a presentation tonight, and I've got a head cold!

Somehow I've been very lucky all these years. I can remember being sick enough to need cold meds during a presentation only once. Just recently I gave a presentation on two hours of sleep, first thing in the morning, and I guarantee no one could tell I was impaired.

A few weeks ago, I learned a new phrase from the TV show So You Think You Can Dance. One of the judges called Kent Boyd's expression while performing, "hungry jazz face."

The judges' criticisms stemmed from their belief that Kent was too busy playing to the audience and not demonstrating authenticity in his performance.

How many times have you sat in the audience during the Q&A portion of a presentation (either live or on the Web or phone), and felt frustrated by one audience member dominating the questions? Perhaps this person has several questions that go on and on, or perhaps she doesn't have a question at all and tells long stories.

During last night's Tour de France coverage, commentator Craig Hummer made the following segue:

"We should make note of the area's most famous landmark, the coal mine behind us. A lot of riders, Bob, are going to have to dig deep today."

Here's another illuminating post I'd like to share with you, by Heather Stubbs at the Tips on Talking blog.

The concept is simple: Your skill level has nothing to do with your worth as a person. So simple, yet so hard to embrace!

Here's an excerpt:

I read an inspiring blog post the other day by Stanford Smith on Pushing Social, about Lady Gaga's highly successful approach to social media. I couldn't help but notice how applicable these tips were to public speaking (as I am wont to do).

For example, he quotes Lady Gaga:

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