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Speak Schmeak is the blog of public speaking coach Lisa Braithwaite


The other night, Bub and I were eating at a Vietnamese restaurant. As we contemplated splitting the third spring roll, I said, "Just eat half and give the rest to me. There's no knife to cut it with."He picked it up and, as I shook my head dubiously, he cleanly tore it in two. I was pretty impressed. Not a single piece of lettuce dropped onto the plate."You just have to commit," he said.Commitment makes all the difference.

To add to my list of unoriginal clichés and tired statistics, how about we stop with the use of pointless dictionary definitions?I visited a website yesterday for speakers, and there was the dictionary definition of "presenter," right in the middle of the page, complete with pronunciation, in case I didn't know how to say it already.

Winners in the contest to title last Monday's blog post are Diane Broos with "Tea-ed off" and Robert Stevenson with "Knowing when to leaf well enough alone." I decided to combine the two into one title, and voila! "Tea-ed off: Knowing when to leaf well enough alone."Diane and Robert each win a copy of my "7-Week Shortcut to Public Speaking Confidence" e-course CD.

Awkward

So you think the audience is secretly judging and criticizing you? So did Kristin Stewart at last night's MTV Movie Awards.Upon receiving her award for Best Female Performance, she proceeded to give her acceptance speech, clearly nervous. While balancing the heavy award in her hand, she lost her grip and it went flying several feet onto the floor as she desperately tried to catch it.

Yes, that's right. I was one of several Santa Barbarians interviewed on how we use Twitter for business and pleasure. Great article, which unfortunately is behind a pay wall, so I won't be posting a link here. And I don't yet have permission to reprint on my site. Will let you know when that happens.

I enjoyed this post by Laurie Foley on "Tasting the Nearly Perfect Sauce," as it reminds me of a lot of our expectations for ourselves as speakers. We must be perfect, we must not make a mistake, we must not let the audience see any flaws, or we will fail.Here's an excerpt from Laurie's post:

I was thinking yesterday about how people who cling to their youth by covering up their gray, surgically smoothing their wrinkles and buying implants (hair or body), are actually the least youthful people I know.Youthfulness comes from the inside, and no matter how hard you try to capture it in your appearance, if you don't have it in spirit, you don't have it.

The School of Coaching Mastery is holding a contest for the best coaching blogs, and I would be so grateful for your vote! Right now I appear to be in 4th place, but voting goes until the end of June and my fortunes can change at any moment!You can also leave a comment below my blog blurb on the site, and the comments also help in the final tally. Winners get a write-up on their site and bragging rights. :-)

While I was working out at the track the other day, football practice was in session on the field. I had the perfect vantage point to watch these young men run drill after drill, over and over, with constant adjustments from the coaches.Here are some tips for you on practicing your presentation, based on the effort I witnessed on the field.1. Practice right

Thank you for all your suggestions! The contest is closed. (Leave your best title for this post in the comments, along with your comments on the post, of course. Best title wins a copy of my e-course! Deadline 5/29.)

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