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Speak Schmeak is the blog of public speaking coach Lisa Braithwaite


Here's another illuminating post I'd like to share with you, by Heather Stubbs at the Tips on Talking blog.

The concept is simple: Your skill level has nothing to do with your worth as a person. So simple, yet so hard to embrace!

Here's an excerpt:

I read an inspiring blog post the other day by Stanford Smith on Pushing Social, about Lady Gaga's highly successful approach to social media. I couldn't help but notice how applicable these tips were to public speaking (as I am wont to do).

For example, he quotes Lady Gaga:

I've experienced two odd conference room configurations in the last month, and I thought I would share them with you.

When I'm booked for a training, I send the organizer a diagram with my preferred room setup. I request classroom-style seating, the screen to my left (in the corner, so I can be in the center), a small table to my right for props, materials, water, notes, etc., and a flip chart either between me and the screen, or behind me.

Here's a new way to think about that anxiety you feel at the beginning of a presentation.

Picture that nervousness like a ball of fire in your stomach. (Sometimes it actually feels that way!)

Something that trips up a lot of inexperienced speakers is the fear of "I don't know." Even when a speaker understands, logically, that it's not possible to know everything and it's not even possible to prepare for every question, he often still freaks out at the thought of not being able to answer a question, especially when there are experts or superiors in the room.

Have you ever eaten a really garlicky salad or pasta dish, only to find yourself exuding garlic perfume for the next 24 hours?

Imagine you have a presentation you've been working on with a partner. Then the day comes to give your presentation, and your partner is sick, so you have to deliver alone. You panic and think, "I only know MY part of the presentation!"

This is what it's like when you come to rely too heavily on PowerPoint. Can you still give your presentation if your technology fails? If not, you are too dependent on PowerPoint!

Yesterday I gave a two-hour workshop after only two hours of sleep. I'm sure you know the feeling... lying in bed hour after hour, getting more and more frustrated and panicked as the time you have to get up approaches.

There's a team in our county that got beaten badly by our local team. After that loss, they decided they weren't going to play our team again.

Both as a former team-sport athlete and as a sports fan, I find it shocking that they are giving up the opportunity to improve their skills by playing a tougher team. The truth is, they've lost all their games this season, so I can see how they might feel demoralized.

You know how much I love a good analogy, right? I'm kind of a crazed analogy-gatherer, and now I've found someone else who is as obsessed with analogies as I am!

Meet Peter Mihalik, author of the Ygolana|Analogy blog. He collects analogies from around the Web and posts them on his site. Here's one I like a lot: Reproduction is like Website.

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